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Post Re: Long distance
kasmanaft08 wrote:
It is somehow both better and worse after you've actually met and hung out with the person. (In online type situations).
In a way it makes not being around the person or able to hang out normally kind of...more real if that makes any sense.
(That's what it's like in my situation, anyhow. Mnnn. )

:( Mmmhmmmm...

Suedehead wrote:
My point is, advancing to short distance from long distance takes a lot of commitment. If you're only casually interested in someone, it's pretty much useless to pursue the idea of there being something more.

Hai, agreed. I'm amazed I've found someone whose so fucking similar to me, pretty much every day I learn something new about her that makes me realise how similar we are.

I've never had a proper long distance relationship like this (apart from over the summer when I was completely off my head on benzos all the time... but that was just silly, and I feel like an idiot for it really). If I could just keep my confidence up and get better and stop giving a fuck about stupid personality/habitual traits/people judging me/people being cunts and putting me down, I could get a job and go see my lady for a weekend. I COULD save up with my benefits money, but I don't think that'd do my ego/self-esteem much good and I'd just sort of feel like a loser without a job uhhhhhh :confused , not sure how to explain it, but I think it just might feel a bit wrong. And anyway, I need to get a fucking job and make myself do more things, can't cave in again.

But yeah, I should think long distance relationships are possible, you just have to really really really fucking like them and be sure you adore the right person and that they're the same. Honesty is fucking important too.


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Post Re: Long distance
PoisonFlowers wrote:
Why does it give you hope?


I... Don't know, it's hard to explain :unsure.

RobbyBobson wrote:
The knowledge that others out there want the same thing?


Partly, but i think it's also a bit of a charm of a "distant heaven" or like that, somewhere out there, a paradise exist for you... Sort of. :confused.

Labrat wrote:
it doesnt work because you cant reach out and slap the shit outta someone when you need to


lol, yeah, that is an unfortunate disadvantage, slaps can be missed sometimes (or sometimes one might want to be slaped :crazy)

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It can work. I have a sort of long distance relationship tho its no where near as far as yours. Because im at uni now my boyfriend is about four hours away. It dosent bother me that much, we'r constantly texting each other and visit when we can find time off and afford it(trains are fucking expensive).
I think as long as your close enough(emotionaly) and stay in good contact it can work no matter how far away you are.


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