Well, it's just the way I feel right now. I'm open to feeling different about things in the future, but if I don't, I don't.

I'm currently in a very loving relationship with otome games. I'm a magnet for creeps and manipulative people in the real world, so I'm content with fictional relationships at this point.

Somewhat twisted, but i hope you get what i mean.

Just don't pay them lunch!



I know... its just that your post sounded so hopeless and final.

I'm the living proof that good things do happen even to a recluse, jobless, "futureless", "euroless" guy like me , not once, but twice... twice and a half.

Like now, im stuck in a dead relationship, we're just good friends. Do i regret it? Never will. In the mix of pain and problems there is strength, laughter, fun and a all bunch of other good stuff. The best part is a the possibility for life, even if just common life. Also you can carry on your hiki ways in secret.



And btw, this as well. For years i was like a puppet, idiots from all over taking advantage of me, even my so called friends. (another smiley face... )

It takes, time, patience and tears, not accepting it... OH NO! Screw them! But to tough it up, learn how to handle it with strength, i guess its a matter of self-esteem... mine suffers severe flotations, one day i'm ready to kick ass, the next i want to run home and hide.

@NotYou: Sorry I am dense so no I do not get what you mean. I am not that smart on top of sucking.

I'm 19 and have only been in one relationship and I use the term relationship loosely. The girl was the one who asked me out and of course being the shy hikikomori I am I wasn't able to be a proper boyfriend. We never talked, or did anything because of me, so of course she broke it off pretty quickly. It's pretty much impossible for me to get a girlfriend. I'm 19 years old and I've never done the simplest things like going on a date, or kissing a girl. I live with my dad and my social skills suck, so it doesn't look very good for me.

Looks like I'm departing from the Loneliness Express for a bit.

Welcome aboard, the bar is just up ahead. Enjoy the ride!

So nice...

Fuck you!

(oops, wrong subject...)

*****


My last relationship lasted for 6 years during which we lived together for 5 years. My ex is still an acquaintance of mine, though we rarely meet - maybe twice or three times each year ever since we broke off 3 years ago. I'm on friendly terms with my exes, which is important to me.

I don't like it, but I have to admit that I'm looking. So far the results are annoying as hell.

Great. A friend of mine just sent this on facebook:

Single again.

Sorry to hear

I'm in a relationship. I'm not sure if it's because I'm simply insecure about myself or if I'm being rightfully wary about how ugly human nature can be, but I find myself worrying sometimes that they don't love me as much as I love them, despite what I see and hear. It's...strange feeling vulnerable like this

Don't be. Its ok. It wasn't working. We both tried to repair it but it came to the point where we were just both tired of trying because it wasn't getting better.

Don't jump to conclusions of your bf based on human nature (or the collective assumption that we're inherently destined to act a certain way) but human behavior. his behavior and only his.

That's good advice. I'll heed it.

Single, and likely to be forever alone. Yippee!

Welcome back to the fold, Megan.

I met the most amazing girl today! She loves Mass Effect and Battlestar Galactica too! We bonded over it and now we're dating! We even made out! I'm so happy!

No, wait, didn't happen, still single. Fuck all you fucking fucks who aren't.

Silly me. Do you mean to singleness or to Hikiculture activity?

Single again, it was fun while it lasted.

Single. Always have been. Gonna keep it that way.

Relationships are scary. All I have to contribute is do NOT date or be in a relationship until your emotionally mentally and physical ready to handle them. I want stability. Something I can't even get in friendships. -__-

Presently single by choice. Enjoying the casual sexual encounters instead; I entered my last relationship prematurely seeking the comfort of another body. Quickly discovered that a personality takes priority over looks and intelligence, but it lingered for two months before we decided to rib it. My plans are to just focus on work and the random chase until I meet someone that draws me in full-circle. With any luck *knock on wood* I'll have an engineering internship over the summer that will pay for the accompanying booze.

FOREVER ALONE

WITH MY BOXES OF TOYS

YOU KNOW YOU WANT MY LIFE, BITCHES

Pshhh, I'm happy with my cats. I don't need toys!