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Lawrens
Elitist
Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2009 3:58 pm
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 Re: When do you get comfortable with people? When they're not expecting anything from me.
Now I think about it, I usually run away or avoid others when people start having any kind of expectations from me, I like to offer and share with people with what I have, but I can't offer anything more than that, when someone expected me to do more than I could, I feel uncomfortable, I really hate to be such a disappointment.
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Dream
So much better than real life
Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:18 pm
Posts: 2833
Location: Asuncion, Paraguay
Country: Paraguay
Sex: Male
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? When i'm too depressed or angry or happy to give a shit.
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We must not judge his evil, we must heal it.
"It is not reason, more or less furnished, but will that makes the world march"
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GentlyFalling
Non-elitist
Joined: Tue Jun 28, 2011 5:35 pm
Posts: 25
Country: United Kingdom
Sex: Female
Mood: Optimistic
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? I get comfortable with people as soon as I'm ok with their voice, it sounds kind of weird, but I need to get to know people's voices before I'm totally comfortable with them. I like to be mentally and physically intimate with those I'm very comfortable with; ruffling of the hair, lounging around on each other ect but when it comes to sexual intimacy I'm a complete prude and am NEVER comfortable  ^^;
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Pantheon
Elitist
Joined: Mon Jun 27, 2011 8:55 pm
Posts: 495
Location: Scotland
Country: United Kingdom
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? I havent actualy been comfortable with anyone for few years. Probably because im not comforable with myself.
I feel akward around almost everyone even if I dont always show it on the outside.
Sexual intimacy is pretty much off the cards right now until I get ontop of this thing.
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DW
TheGrowingOtaku
Joined: Sat Mar 05, 2011 3:54 pm
Posts: 598
Location: Somewhere
Country: United States
Sex: Female
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? IRL, Im only comfortable when I am aware that:
1) The conversation will not last long
2) I keep my mind blank to avoid negative assumptions about the person
I think thats it
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– Tales of Mere Existence: I Don’t Know What I Want by Lev Yilmaz
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Nishi666
Your Post-Mortem Plaything
Joined: Wed Dec 08, 2010 7:47 pm
Posts: 1230
Country: United States
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? When I don't think. (I always overthink like the Underground Man.) I just clear my mind, all Zen-like, and it seems to work for me. In a way, I kind of don't like it, because it makes me think, when I think about it, that I'm dumbing myself down, but then that is an open window for getting into all my torturous ways of thinking, which makes me feel uncomfortable around people, again.
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astonix
Non-elitist
Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2011 7:12 am
Posts: 4
Country: United Kingdom
Sex: Male
Mood: Stressed
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? When I'm in a close-knit, small group of people I know are like me i.e. don't follow society like a sheep and are.. strange. We never actually had eye contact most of the time, and most of our conversations were about something vulgar or something 'normal' people wouldn't find slightly humorous.
Anyone else, I want to run and hide.
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Hiki
HikiCulture Tourist
Joined: Thu Apr 07, 2011 8:24 pm
Posts: 583
Location: CA
Country: United States
Sex: Female
Mood: Nerdy
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? smile at me and we're cool
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PoisonFlowers
Would you like some making Fuck? Belserker!
Joined: Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:25 pm
Posts: 1952
Location: St. Ides Heaven
Country: United Kingdom
Sex: Female
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? Aww really? I can take ages for me to feel comfy. The best you can get out of me at first is a cautious feeling of warming to you.
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Jester
I'm a bicycle I'm two tyred to ride home
Joined: Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:41 am
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Mood: Blank
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Re: When do you get comfortable with people? When I've known them for many years and they're not in my house.
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